What if one parent refuses to comply with the custody agreement?

On Behalf of | Aug 30, 2024 | Family Law |

Child custody agreements are legally binding in North Carolina, and both parents must follow the terms. These agreements outline each parent’s responsibilities and the time spent with the child. 

However, conflicts can arise if one parent refuses to comply with the agreement. This can cause significant stress and disrupt the child’s well-being.

Document the violations

If a parent refuses to follow the custody agreement, the first step involves documenting every instance of non-compliance. This can include missed visitations, late returns, or any other violations. Keep detailed records with dates, times, and descriptions of each incident. This documentation will be helpful if legal action becomes necessary.

File a motion for contempt

It is important to try to communicate with the non-compliant parent. You may be able to work things out by calmly reaching out to discuss the issue. If that fails, filing a motion for contempt with the court is the next legal step. 

In North Carolina, a parent who refuses to comply with a custody order can be held in contempt of court. The court will review the evidence and may impose penalties, such as fines, makeup time for missed visitations, or even jail time for the non-compliant parent.

Modify the custody agreement

In some cases, it might be necessary to request a modification of the custody agreement. If one parent consistently violates the order, the court may consider changing the terms to better protect the child’s best interests. This could involve altering visitation schedules or adjusting parental responsibilities.

Legal steps may need to be taken when a parent refuses to comply with a custody agreement. It’s important to act quickly to protect the child’s well-being and ensure both parents fulfill their obligations.